By: Jack Neil.
Tantrums are inevitable when you have a toddler in the house. This is an issue that many parents are not able to handle very easily. Most parenting guides and
counselors emphasize the fact that parents need to deal with these tantrums very patiently. Still there are many parents who complain about not being able to solve them.
You will need to be very good at problem solving if you want to handle your toddler?s tantrums well. You will have to resist the urge to shout at your child in many situations but you need to realize that shouting will never help. You have to understand them in order to solve the issue and manage such situations.
There are a few good tricks and tips that can be made use of in these situations. Some of these tricks and techniques are mentioned below:
Maintain Appropriate Boundaries:
You need to establish certain boundaries for your child. They have to be trained in such a way that they should know the extent to which they can go. This is not very difficult to establish and can be a very helpful technique in avoiding tantrums.
Stick to a Daily Routine:
Set a daily routine for your child. This will help in managing them and their moods. They need to get enough sleep so you will have to regulate the timings accordingly. Research has proved that toddlers who get a sufficient amount of sleep are less cranky and, therefore, throw fewer tantrums.
You need to be firm in dealing with their tantrums. You should make them realize that throwing tantrums will not help them in any way. This is very important to note. Once a toddler starts thinking that they will be able to pressurize you, they will make a habit of doing it again and again. Be fair but be firm in order to avoid these situations from transforming into a habit.
Staying calm when your toddler is throwing tantrums can be extremely difficult. It becomes even more difficult to handle when you are in a public place. You have to understand that shouting will not help you at this point. You should stay calm and try to reason with them in a firm manner. Try to resolve the issue instead of fighting with your child.
Most parents even try to find the easy way out of these situations. They believe that if you want to solve the problem, give them what they want. This is in fact the worst thing you can do at times like these. It is also one of the reasons why tantrums become a habit among toddlers. Shouting, bargaining, bribery and even threats will not work.
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