By: Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed.
After a long day at work, one of the last things a working parent wants to come home to is a pile of homework. Kids certainly aren’t the only ones who dread it. In fact, a recent LifeCare® poll found that 99 percent of working parents feel some level of stress when trying to help their children with homework–and 49 percent of them rate the stress they feel as “high.” Many parents report that their children don’t even begin to tackle assignments while they are in after-care or home alone. When this occurs, they then have a full load of homework to complete in addition to dinner, chores, and sports. More than ever, a working parent must have a few tricks up his or her sleeve to get it all done.
Use After-Care to Your Advantage
Talk with the after-care director or teacher responsible for your daughter. Ask him or her to have your child complete the easiest homework assignment before leaving for the day. Many children either cannot focus or do not want to do homework in after-care, but they are capable of completing a simple task. By the time your daughter arrives home, at least one piece of work should be out of the way.
Use Plan Time While Home Alone
If you are unable to be at home when your daughter comes in off the bus, arrange to either call home at a specified time or have her call you upon arrival. During this conversation, ask her to share his prioritized homework list, again, ranking work from easy to hard. This way, the simple work is completed early on and you can assist with the more difficult assignments as needed. In addition, encourage your daughter to check off work he has finished so that you will be able to see quickly and easily what has been accomplished and what is left to do. If your daughter’s list seems unusually short on a regular basis, ask her to print out a list of homework assignments from the school’s online portal so that you can verify the homework load when you return home.
Find a Study Buddy Many elementary classrooms already distribute a list of contact information for classmates. Have your daughter identify three students she feels comfortable contacting in case she has any questions regarding homework. Keep their contact information in your daughter’s homework area. If your student is older, encourage her to choose several trusted peers or one peer from each class, to call with any questions.
Use Weekends Constructively
The weekend provides a wonderful opportunity for working parents to be active supporters of their children’s homework. And many times, weekends are needed to catch up and get ahead.
Schedule a Sunday Planning Session
On a weekly basis (Sunday evenings usually work well), set aside a half hour to plan for the upcoming week. During this time, talk to your daughter about any
extra-curricular activities that might be scheduled and, most importantly, any long-term assignments. Often, it’s what’s not due the next day that can throw even the most seasoned parent for a loop. Create a plan for upcoming projects, book reports, and studying for tests. Help your daughter to break them down and write the smaller tasks in their assignment notebook. By previewing the week ahead, everyone is less stressed and more organized and not confronted with last minute surprises that don’t bring out the best in anyone.
By anticipating trouble spots and careful planning, even the busiest parent can ensure smooth sailing ahead.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed., is the founder and president of Educational Connections, Inc., a comprehensive provider of educational services in Fairfax, VA and Bethesda, MD. In her award-winning book, Homework Made Simple: Tips, Tools and Solutions for Stress-Free Homework, Dolin offers proven solutions to help the six key types of students who struggle with homework. Numerous examples and easy-to-implement, fun tips will help make homework less of a chore for the whole family. Learn more at anndolin.com
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